This month's write-away theme at Scribbit is Wonder Woman.
So, you want to be Wonder Woman. No, I don't mean the one with magical bracelets that deflect bullets or carries a lasso of truth, the fictional Amazonian version of a lie detector test, or wears an highly revealing fancy bathing suit when she wants to do good in the world.
I am talking about the one that has a vision, something important she wants to share with the world, something she sees as contributing to the greater good of everyone. Or, maybe the one that just can't say no and feels compelled to meet everyone's needs before her own. Regardless, she is the one who whatever her bent, her passion, her quest, she also has to be a mother, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a wife and much more.
Wonder Woman, my childhood hero, has some lessons for all of us.
1) Pick your battles and focus. You WILL have a nervous breakdown if you think you can do it all. Let others share in the fight. Hello, Superfriends.
2) Know when to make your appearance. You can't be everywhere EVER. When you have a lot going on, someone somewhere will be disappointed with you because you are not doing their bidding or following their priorities. Get over it and do what you know to be right for you. If in doubt, confirm it with those you have chosen as your private counsel (husband, friend, pastor, God, etc.).
3) Know when to disappear. Without downtime, you won't be good to anyone. Use downtime to think, observe and reenergize!
4) Know your friends from your enemies. Make sure to have wise counsel around you. Prioritize those who mean the most to you and go from there.
5) When those you love are in trouble, drop and run (to them). Even Wonder Woman had her sister kidnapped when she wasn't looking. Life happens.
6) Know your weapons. "Strong humans become ruthless self-seekers unless they are bound by love," as quoted by Wonder Woman, when referring to a human who once wore and then removed the magic Amazonian bracelets that represented an indestructible bond of love that made them invincible. Their main defense against evil bullets and all sorts of harm were forged and worn out of a greater love for the one who held the Amazons captive. Very interesting.
7) Pass on what you have learned. There is no greater satisfaction than to empower another to carry on the good you began. Be the rock that creates a ripple. The more people you can help learn, the bigger difference you make. And, the less you end up doing by yourself.
8) Look really cool when you have to shine! Otherwise, don't let fashion obsessions get the best of you or your budget. Did you see Wonder Woman's blue office suit? Nothing to write home about. But that bathing suit. . . Va Va Voom!
These are lessons I am sharing with you because I need to improve on all of them and I totally loved watching every single Wonder Woman episode, had the doll, the Halloween costume. . . . I also want to be a woman my children are inspired by just like my mom has been to me but time will tell on that one.
Hopefully ten other people don't do exactly the same thing for this contest. If they do, oh well. I had fun. Thanks for reading.
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