What I Learned This Week: Too much, too little time

What-I-Learned-This-Week-1 I sooooo do not have time to be doing this right now but I CAN'T miss a good party so here I am.

This week, I learned what a Tony Luke's cheesesteak tastes like! AWESOME. I learned that you CAN see me as a nurse extra in Tony Luke's independent film, "The Nail: The Story of Joey Nardone." Woohoo. It's a Philly film – about grit, emotion and redemption. Read about it in my previous post HERE.

This last weekend, I also went to the PA Leadership Conference in Harrisburg and learned scary, scary facts from the conservative orators of our state about what is going on in our country. We heard Michael Reagan speak about his father, former president Ronald Reagan. That was tear-jerking. He shared special moments and details that made his father the great man who he was. Unfortunately, I will have to share those later because I am seriously running on seconds here.

I also met the great Twitterer Ethan Demme who was hilarious and shared with me how he is up to over 11,000 followers on Twitter. (He is also the COO for Math-U-See.) SECRET: Follow a couple hundred people, wait a few days, unfollow those who don't follow you. After a couple of days, start the process over again. Genius.

I also met Scott Ott, ScrappleFace, who writes a political parody site mentioned by Rush Limbaugh and is running for Lehigh county executive. Great guy! Knows how to tell you what is going on in a way you can understand it.

Now, I really do have to run. Will check in later. You ladies ROCK!

Head over to Jo-Lynne's for more What I Learned This Week!

P.S. My new Story of My Life story on Adrienne Mazzone "People Became My Medicine" went live last night. Read the first paragraph here. CLICK HERE to head over to the site to read more!

Relaxing into the airplane seat, Adrienne Mazzone thought to herself, my life has really changed. She was returning from a business trip with her father in Vienna where they stood in front of OPEC covering the story as Freedom Watch Founder Larry Klayman waved his proverbial "smoking gun" in the form of a gas pump nozzle as he protested the financial crisis he says OPEC has caused in America. Several years ago, she had no idea she would be traveling around the world with her father. Then, suddenly, her husband, John, died of rare duodenal cancer and she was faced with the decision of what to do next.

About "The Nail: The Story of Joey Nardone"

The tough, gritty and emotional film of "The Nail: The Story of Joey Nardone" gave its second viewing at the Philly Film Festival today. I was there, with my sister, her husband and a friend named Cheryl BECAUSE of some notice somewhere that this independent film needed volunteers last summer.

And, being the friendly soul that I am who enjoys seeing the behind-the-scenes movie life, I said yes to a hot day in a hot, closed-for-business hospital building dressed in scrubs like a nurse to be in this movie with Tony Luke, Jr. and Leo Rossi, directed by James Quatrocci. Did I know any of these people? No, but I loved meeting them because each and every one of them was incredibly personable, fun-loving and great to be around. The scene was serious that day so there wasn't too much joking around but it was fascinating nonetheless.

The movie itself was pretty good. Tony Luke Jr. did a great job. The bar room scene that landed him in jail went a little too fast. It flashed so quickly that I am going to have to see it again to see how the person died that he was sent to jail for. (I was too busy looking for my friend Cindy in the background!)

Afterward, Cheryl and I went over to Tony Luke's where we enjoyed authentic Philly sandwiches, me a cheesesteak and her a meatball sandwich. Awesome! That's a trip I would highly recommend if you ever come to town.

Without further ado, I bring you the trailer of the film about a boxer who gets out of jail after 8 years and helps a boy and his mother get away from an abusive father. I was encouraged at the end of the film when James, Tony, Leo and his wife stood in front and talked about the attention they want this film to bring to organizations working to resolve domestic abuse. I thought that was great. The other day I saw Reese Witherspoon on the TV promoting the work of the AVON foundation for the same cause. It is wonderful to see the attention brought to this issue which affects so many women who live in silent fear and suffering.

 

See the trailer below:

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In Philadelphia with Tony Luke Jr at The Nail screening

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Wanna come for Tea? Planning a Tax Day Tea Party

I am planning a Tea Party and NO, I am not talking about having you over for scones, jelly and lemon curd. I am jumping on the Tea Party bandwagon that is spreading across America, little towns and big. The threat of increased taxes, the stimulus package, the mortgage bailout, the government's leanings towards a massive takeover of just about EVERYTHING has got to come to an end. This is just crazy, people.

If you live in the area, this is your official invitation to come to the corner of Bridge and Main in Phoenixville, PA for a Tea Party on April 15, 2009 from 6-8 PM. You might not get tea but you will get a chance to make a public protest against the change happening in our country that I certainly can not believe in.

Glenn Beck is promoting the tea parties through his 912 project (9 principles/ 12 core values) and wants to see Americans of like mind gathering to make a statement.

Now, I have to tell you. I was never much of a rally girl. As I have aged, hopefully with some wisdom, I do see the value in not only joining a nationwide public statement but using that opportunity to educate the public and even the participants in how they can help support local causes towards a government that protects its families, liberties and privileges. There are a lot of writers who could say it fancier. There are those quoting the great minds of our forefathers. From the humble opinion of a Stay-At-Home-Mom, I am telling you that I am sick of seeing taxes go up with less and less benefit to the consumer and money being pumped into organizations that should have handled their own money (and mine) better to begin with.

It is seriously scaring me which is why I am organizing and hosting a Tea Party so that I can better understand what needs to be done, so that I can learn the issues and know how to express them, and so that I can help educate others in the process. More on this after I attend this weekend's PA Leadership Conference where I get to go hear people who do say it more eloquently. I will try to take good notes for you!

Here are just a few of the sign ideas from Tax Day Tea Party suggested for an event like this: (What would you put on a sign in 6 words or less?)

Pay for Your OWN Mortgage

Free Markets, Not Free Loaders

No Public Money for Private Failure

We The People ARE FED UP

– Cap and Trade = Broke and Poor

– I would rather live under a bridge than live under socialism

– Revolution! Nuff said

– The sleeping giant is now awake

– Is this what you voted for?

– Government is Broken

– RIP America

– I'm sorry I didn't do more to stop the madness

– Tea is only the beginning

– Do you know what happened after 1773? We Do

– We don't want pork, We Want Liberty

– Special Interest Get the Pork, We Get the Beans.

Repeal the Pork

REPEAL THE BAILOUT CONGRESS

– We the People…are now owned by the Chinese

– Atlas will shrug

– Stimulate business, not government

– Home ownership is not an entitlement

– I’ll pay for my house, you pay for yours

– Party like it’s 1773

– Proud American capitalist

– Repeal the pork or your bacon is cooked

– Your mortgage is not my problem

– Save trees, stop printing money

Stimulus = $870 Billion, 2009 Deficit = $1.75 Trillion, U.S. Dollar = WORTHLESS!!

– Just Say No (word “Socialism” with circle and slash)

– Liberty is all the stimulus we need

Reward Responsibility, Not Irresponsibility

Andrew Jackson was Right: No to Bank Nationalization

Cut Taxes, Not Deals

Next Time, Read the Bill Before You Sign It

You Can’t Borrow to Prosperity

Don’t Mortgage the Future

Solve Problems, Don’t Sweep Them Under the Table

220 Years to Build the Republic, 1 Month to Destroy It

Obama has a Crisis of Competence

Why Should I Pay for YOUR Bad Decisions

Restore the Republic, Revolt Against Socialism

Sleep? I’ll Sleep When Conservatives Run Congress

Netizen Warriors, Not Dependent Whiners

READ THE BILL NEXT TIME

No Taxation Without Deliberation

No Taxation Without Deliberative Representation

No Spending Without Deliberation

No Spending Without Deliberative Representation

Join Our Cause: Restore the Republic

We Don’t Want No Stinkin Socialism !

The Very Small List: Things Government Does Well

REPEAL THE PORK

REPEAL THE BAILOUT CONGRESS

Quotes:

– “Man is not free unless the government is limited.” Ronald Reagan

– “The way to crush the bourgeoisie is to grind them between the millstones of taxation and inflation.” Vladmir Lenin

– “It takes as much imagination to create debt as to create income.” Leonard Orr

– “Debt is the fatal disease of republics, the first thing and the mightiest to undermine governments and corrupt the people.” Wendell Phillips

"A Republic, if you can keep it" Ben Franklin

What I Learned This Week: Big Girl Shoes

WhatIlearned You learn, and you learn and it seems that every week there are new things to learn.

1) I learned that my daughter's shoes are now bigger than mine! I am so not ready for this.

2) I learned that it is okay to want to write for the sake of writing, the sheer joy of putting words together to express a thought, an emotion, a belief. I share this after hearing a very lovely godly woman tell me that she wrote several books because there was a need, not because she just wanted to write. I struggled with this all week because I started to think: is my writing just about me or can God use my creative desire to help others and still let me enjoy the process? Is that too selfish sounding? Is it all just work? And then, God brought some more incredible people in my life.

 Dr. Meyer, at Valley Forge Christian College, spoke to my class last Tuesday night. He talked about the weekly column he writes called "Think About It." He shared that he has been writing that column for eight years, for no pay. He has obligatory writing that comes with his job, but this column was something he enjoyed putting together each week, week after week. The college gets some press out of it but more importantly, he loves doing it. You could see it in his eyes. A student asked, "Do you ever get tired of it?"

He replied, "Respectfully, that is irrelevant. Once I commit to something, I do it." He was very nice about it but he didn't even consider stopping the column an option. He shared how he has 5-8 weeks planned out, in varying stages. It is his ministry to the public too as he shares little ways each week on how to be inspired and how to think about things a little more deeply in this world we live in, each and every day.

Another opportunity to meet creative writers offered itself on Thursday. In researching writing conferences, I had learned about the Greater Philadelphia Christian Writers Conference that comes up in August. When I was invited to a writer's group this last week, I had no idea I would meet the delightful Marlene Bagnull who both runs this monthly group and runs the entire conference. She has written a wonderful Christian devotional book for writers called Write His Answer. In the book, she encourages writers in both their devotional life and in the craft of writing. I am still working my way through it, but I love it.

3) I learned that I have small writers "feet" and I have meet some BIG SHOES lately in the field of writing and I have so much to learn. I have been reading another book this week called Spunk and Bite by Arthur Plotnik. It is absolutely delightful! It talks of neologism, umamis and more words forms that either I had never heard of or forgot.

4) I learned that with risk come the potential for embarrassment and failure, but more importantly the potential for success in knowing that you tried, success in the joy of the journey and potential for real accomplishment when you keep at IT, whatever IT is for you.

Have an awesome day! Go learn & grow. Jo-Lynne has more learning moments over at Musings of Housewife.

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Philly Moms Post: The Fickle Life of Film

Here is an excerpt from my most recent post over at Philly Moms. Click HERE to read more!

In July 2007, Pennsylvania decided to be generous and provide a $75 million tax incentive to filmmakers and TV producers to draw attention to our lovely state and create new jobs. It worked. The entertainment industry has come running to take advantage of the program that gives back up to 25 percent in tax credits if production companies spend at least 60 percent of their budget here.

While this is all good, you may ask why a stay-at-home-mom cares that legislators are considering revoking the law that placed Pennsylvania in the top five movie-making states. Is it pure pride in my Keystone state that loves seeing it in the spotlight? No, unfortunately, my motives are a little more self-motivated.

Click HERE to read more about my day on the set of Law Abiding Citizen and how opportunities like that are being jeopardized by legislation in Harrisburg.

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Or best yet, just let me know you stopped by and say "Hi!" I'll be sure to return the favor.

Have a great day!

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Going Somewhere? Frugal Air Travel

Going somewhere? Driving takes a long time and a lot of gas. So what do you do when you are on a shoestring budget and you need to fly to get to your destination? You plan on planning ahead.

Read the rest HERE at the Phoenix! (And I am embarrassed to say that I was submitting last minute and didn't have time to read it outloud to someone. The editor is stretched thin and didn't catch two errors that I saw as soon as I read it online today! Ugggh!)

What I Learned This Week: Constant Contact E-Newsletter

WhatIlearned Hi everyone! I learned how to create an e-newsletter this week. I have been putting it off for months because it was more than I wanted to figure out at the time. After going to last week's leadership training for women, I saw an example by another woman and decided to try it out. Here's what I did:

1) Went to Constant Contact.com.
2) Signed up for a 60 day FREE trial.
3) Followed the steps to import the specific mailing list I needed for the group of women I need to communicate to in this area. There were only 29 on the list.
4) Picked a template and continued to followed the steps to the edit mode.
5) Edited my template, filled in my information and sent the e-mail – all within a span of about 4 hours.

I was shocked how easy it was. Advantages include: coding to display the e-mail both with pictures & links and without in case some web browsers don't support it and a web version if someone's e-mail can't see the images, tons of pre-made templates with editable blocks that are easy to use, great customer service, and reports to let you see who read it and what links they followed.

The main disadvantage is a small fee per month which can add up if you are only communicating with a small crowd. You should also know some idea of your content and how to link to other sites to make it worth all CC has to offer. I wanted to provide links to ministry tools in our denomination: websites of all the local churches in our presbytery, links to mission organizations, and to the PCA (Presbyterian Church of America) bookstore. Because I had so much to share and point people to, I felt that the time had come to master this program and indeed, it went fast after I started.

Earlier last year, I helped a woman start a website in WordPress. We downloaded a one-time fee newsletter program. The problem with that program was that it did not have near the functionality of Constant Contact, who has put their money to good use in user friendly steps, pre-made templates and customer service who calls you within hours of signing up –too bad I was already done the project when the woman called. She was helpful though since I had a few lingering questions

To start, the cost is about $15/month. If you go over 100 readers, the price goes up to maintain the list and more as your readership goes up. I don't see going over 100 with our list, so I am hoping the price stays low even though I will be submitting it to our presbytery since it is a tool used to communicate with all the women's ministries in our area.

If you have a need to communicate and a group that needs it, I would definitely endorse Constant Contact as quick and easy way to go — especially if you don't have computer help figuring out free plug-ins and website stuff!

Now head over to Jo-Lynne's to join the What I Learned This Week party! She's been working hard on her new design and it is looking good.

Frugal Living: Creating A Plan of Action

Here is the excerpt from last week's frugal living column.

Frugality is quickly moving past a novel term, something that this is in today, out tomorrow. It has become a necessity and a reality. The news is overflowing with depressing statistics on unemployment and job fairs are busting at the seams. The need to use our money wisely and look for creative new ways to earn extra income increases as the competition grows. It's time to get entrepreneurial with a plan of action.

To read more, click HERE to read the rest at The Phoenix!

Story of My Life: Kirk Bauer

Here is an excerpt from my most recent interviewee, Kirk Bauer:

On March 19, 2003, Kirk Bauer, Executive Director of Disabled Sports USA, sat watching his television as President George W. Bush declared war on Iraq. In a defining moment, he knew he would pool all resources necessary to help wounded soldiers recover from war-time injuries related to this war. The next second, he was miles into the past, lying in the Vietnamese dirt with severe injuries, wondering if he would live to see his family again, believing his death imminent.

Click HERE to read the rest of the story at Story Of My Life.